Without seeking external validation, asking permission, or getting distracted.
In 2016 I was starting life over. I had lost everything I'd spent my life earning as a result of my obsession with gambling. My son was heading off to college, my bank account was empty and I was miserable inside.
I didn't know why I had done this to myself. I didn't understand how I could've let it get so bad. I had spent my whole life building a career only to throw it all away. I knew something had to change. I was not living the life I wanted to be living. I also had absolutely no idea what I wanted AND I had so many things I wanted to be different.
It was then they I decided it was time to get help. It was time to focus on what I truly wanted, not what other people thought I should want, not what the world around me told me I should want, but what I wanted.
I began a 2 year journey of self-exploration getting to know myself deeply. I did therapy, I went to recovery meetings, I got help from coaches.
The most valuable thing I learned was that I was the only thing standing in my way of achieving my wildest goals. All of my learning led me to create The Self Discovery Method which is a combination of journaling, daily reflection, and action planning.
When we work together, you will know yourself deeply, you will trust yourself to make clear decisions, and you will take massive action on your goals.